I have my heart in two places

Is it possible? To be in love with two at the same time? I was so sure that I wanted to be back in Singapore come November '08, but now I'm not sure. I love Singapore for the old friends, the comfort, being amongst people who are like me, but I love New York for embracing the new and experimental me. How do I choose between two that I might possibly love equally? It's almost like looking for a boyfriend, you know. Can I have it all?